Drawing the line

Love is a beautiful thing but beware!!

When a couple gets together, the initial phase seems all lovey dovey and as if there is no care in the world. 

My advise? Do NOT let this catch you off guard! The initial phase of any relationship is the most important one off all. This is the time period that both sides sets their limits and expectations. Keep in mind that whatever it is that you might let "slide" will be your worst nightmare later on in the relationship. So DO let your partner know when you are uncomfortable or dislike something, chances are, they have no clue and may be mislead into thinking it is perfectly fine. This phase is also where each partner learns about the other so it is best to be "real" and not to do things that you think they "might" like.

Another crucial topic!

This is where we get to the nitty gritty.

MONEY! Although you might say money does not matter, well, it actually DOES! How else would you be able to shelter, bath, and be fed?! Now, I am not saying they need to be a millionaire or drive a Lamborghini but great personal finance management skills does not hurt! You will thank me later when you are trying to plan that perfect vacation with your partner. :)

After hearing so many stories about couples fighting over money, I have developed a strong stance on the separation of accounts and going halves on everything. First of all, this is one less thing you can fight or argue about. A good number of fights between couples is about money so why not eliminate this all together? 

Having a joint account might seem like a great idea but it could potentially lead to a death trap. Today, many things rely on your credit so why should you have to suffer from your partner's irresponsibility? Keep it separate and you will no longer have to add another thing to your worry list.  This also gives you the freedom of buying whatever it is that you want without having to consult or worry about what he or she is going to say. Just be responsible!  When it comes to paying for things like dinner, electricity bill, or rent; each person should pay half and call it a day. Again, by doing so, you will avoid conflict later on in the relationship.

With the money issue out of the way, you two love birds can now enjoy the honeymoon stage truly without a care in the world!

Lesson of the day: Keep it separated!!

YOLO or not?

Okay, unless you have been living under a rock or is too cool to listen to mainstream music, you have heard of the acronym, "YOLO". What does it mean? It means, "You only live once". It is basically a hipper version of Carpe Diem, cease the day.

Some might say it is a word used as an excuse to be reckless. I think, it just depends on the situation!

Just think how many opportunities we might have missed due to fear or perhaps just pure laziness! So why not hop on the YOLO train, chances are... you might actually have some FUN and LIVE  a little!

Of course, we should be responsible and blah, blah, blah... Life is no fun if you don't take a chance. So the next time you hear Drake's song, "The Motto", put up your glasses, hands, canes, or what you have in your hands at that moment and live it UP.

The verdict: YOLO 24/7 and live till we droppp!!

The Chase/ The Game

Whatever you call it, it takes two to tango! Although some might find it hard to admit, we love being chased! It is the feeling of being wanted that keeps us in the game.
This leads to the question of why people chose to cheat. I have heard of the theory that women are emotional cheaters and men cheat for the physical aspect of it. Personally, I think people cheat because they no longer feel that they are wanted or chased, regardless if you are a guy or a girl!
Now that we know we like to be chased, it begs the question of why people chase people? My only answer is that people chase because they find something or multiple somethings about you that they can't wrap their fingers around. When we are in a relationship for a long period of time, we tend to get too comfortable and may lose that particular something that drives our partners crazily in love with us.
So now what?! The answer...is to always better YOU. Chances are, if you don't want yourself then why should they?
So let's cut the excuses and work on ME!

Just a tinkle of thought...
Night!
-Ting

In a Nutshell!

Here is a healthy and nutritious snack to keep me going in between meals.

Just grab a handful and start snacking! They taste great and keeps me fulfilled!

What: Kirkland Wholesome Fruit & Nuts from Costco

Sprinkle, drip, drop!

Morning!
Woke up to some rain this morning and how refreshing! Hope everyone have a great Tuesday and a smooth rest of the week!
With TLC,
Ting

Rotating Sushi Bar

Annie and I decided to check out this new sushi spot by our work. To our surprise, it is a rotating sushi bar!
Check out all of the different varieties! To start, each worker greets you in sync in Japanese! How exciting!
The prices of each plate depends on the color of the plate.

Funny side note: We can't stop staring at the rotating food that we are having neck pains! LOL

Where: Gatten Sushi, Gardena CA

50 Day Shake Challenge!

As part of getting into a healthy mindset, I have created a 50 Day Shake Challenge for myself to follow.
The challenge consists of drinking two meal replacement shakes per day with healthy snacks in between. The meals I am replacing are breakfast and lunch. As for dinner, I try to eat a smaller portion and healthy meals.
Join me on my journey to become a healthier me!
I have designed a calendar to keep myself on track!

Health: Apple A Day

As we probably have all heard the saying, "An apple a day, keeps the doctor away".
As part of my personal journey to starting eating healthy, I have adopt this saying to eat an apple a day.

I have to say, the Fuji apples at Costco is quite a refreshing treat!

DIY- Home Decor

When it comes to making a apartment, house, or whatever living quarters truly a home, one must put his or her touch to it.
After moving into my very own apartment this past October, I've been filling it with furniture to make it livable.
This past weekend, I finally convinced my dear boyfriend of five years to put up some artwork. In addition, I went to Bed, Bath, and Beyond to pick up these fun and pocket friendly decorative flowers to put that personal touch.
I can now consider this place a home.

So let's roll up our sleeves and turn on our creative cells to make your place, a HOME!

Enjoy!

And it begins...

Greetings!
I've been thinking about starting a blog for quite some time now so here it is!
It will be a blog of random findings for me to share with you. Please kick off your shoes and enjoy!
Smooches,
Ting